Girls with this type of mother do better in life

Girls with this type of mother do better in life

Pretty complex and sometimes intense, the mother-daughter relationship can easily oscillate between absolute love and feeling of contempt. Perceiving her daughter as her own reflection, a mother often finds herself obliged to protect her and direct her to attain that which she herself has not been able to attain. The girl on her side wants to live her life as she sees fit and sometimes refuses to comply with the rules! This is why some mothers are perceived as too harsh, but this is good news!

In the early years of adolescence, the mother no longer has to deal with a child but with a woman who is not yet an adult. As a protective mother, she tries by all means to protect her daughter from various problems of life such as love disappointments, risks of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.

Between the prohibitions of exit and the reproaches by contribution to the attire, the war is quickly declared.On the one hand, we have a donor of lessons and, on the other hand, a girl who refuses to receive them, feeling humiliated by the excessive authority of hermother.Some may even go so far as to regard their authoritarian mother as their enemy, and want to free themselves from their hold.

A severe mother, we all want it!

To all those whose mothers kept repeating to them the same sentence: "one day you will thank me," your mother was right. It is in any case the conclusion of a scientific study carried out by English researchers, which demonstrated that the daughters of mothers judged to be unbearable are generally more successful in life than others.

Between 2004 and 2010, researchers from the University of Essex, England conducted a study to compare different types of education and their impact on children. Thus, during these six years, they followed the development of a group of young girls, aged between 13 and 14 at the beginning of the study.

The results showed that thegirlsWho had severe and too strict mothers were more likely to go on to higher education and succeed in their professional lives, as compared to those with less demanding mothers. In addition, statistically, there was also less risk for them to accidentally become pregnant during their teenage years.

That said, choices made by children and adults are often influenced by their parents' expectations and by the mother's education.

TheeducationStrictly teaches the child at an early age to be responsible, namely to correct his mistakes and to assume the consequences of his actions. So, if you have experienced this experience, you must be infinitely grateful to your mum for all she has done for you. Thanks to her, you have gained enough strength, independence and confidence to succeed.

Despite the number of difficulties and conflicts that mark this period of life, there is a day when the teenager of the past realizes the immense sacrifice of her sweet mother who has done her best to carry her to good harbor.

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Girls, with, this, type, of, mother, do, better, in, life, Pretty, complex, and, sometimes, intense,, the, mother-daughter, relationship, can, easily, oscillate, between, absolute, love, and, feeling, of, contempt., Perceiving, her, daughter, as, her, own, reflection,, a, mother, often, finds, herself, obliged, to, protect, her, and, direct, her, to, attain, that, which, she, herself, has, not, been, able, to, attain., The, girl, on, her, side, wants, to, live, her, life, as, she, sees, fit, and, sometimes, refuses, to, comply, with, the, rules!, This, is, why, some, mothers, are, perceived, as, too, harsh,, but, this, is, good, news!, At, the, beginning, of, adolescence,, the, mother, no, longer, has, to, deal, with, a, child, but, with, a, woman, who, is, not, yet, an, adult., As, a, protective, mother,, she, tries, by, all, means, to, protect, her, daughter, from, various, problems, of, life, such, as, love, disappointments,, risks, of, pregnancy, or, sexually, transmitted, diseases., Between, exit, bans, and, reproaches, by, bringing, in, &, nbsp;, Dress,, war, is, quickly, declared., On, the, one, hand,, we, have, a, teacher, of, lessons,, and, on, the, other, hand, a, girl, who, refuses, to, receive, them,, feeling, humiliated, by, the, excess, of, her, mother's, authority., Some, may, even, go, so, far, as, to, consider, their, authoritarian, mother, as, their, enemy,, and, want, to, free, themselves, from, their, hold., A, severe, mother,, we, all, want, it!, To, all, those, whose, mothers, kept, repeating, to, them, the, same, sentence:, "one, day, you, will, thank, me,", your, mother, was, right., This, is,, in, any, case,, the, conclusion, of, a, scientific, study, carried, out, by, English, researchers,, who, has, demonstrated, that, the, daughters, of, mothers, deemed, to, be, unviable, are, generally, more, successful, in, life, than, others., &, Nbsp;, Between, 2004, and, 2010,, researchers, from, the, University, of, Essex,, England,, conducted, a, study, to, compare, different, types, of, education, And, their, impact, on, children., Over, the, past, six, years,, they, have, followed, the, development, of, a, group, of, young, girls, between, the, ages, of, 13, and, 14, at, the, beginning, of, the, study., The, results, showed, that, girls, with, severe, and, too, strict, mothers, were, more, likely, to, go, on, to, higher, education, and, succeed, in, their, professional, lives,, compared, to, those, with, less, demanding, mothers., In, addition,, statistically,, there, was, also, less, risk, for, them, to, accidentally, become, pregnant, during, their, teenage, years., However,, the, choices, made, by, children, and, adults, are, often, influenced, by, their, parents', expectations, and, by, the, mother's, education, in, particular., Strict, education, therefore, teaches, the, child, at, an, early, age, to, be, responsible,, namely, correcting, mistakes, and, assuming, the, consequences, of, his, actions., So,, if, you, have, experienced, this, experience,, you, must, be, infinitely, grateful, to, your, mom, for, all, she, has, done, for, you., Through, it,, you, have, gained, enough, strength,, independence, and, confidence, to, succeed., In, spite, of, the, number, of, difficulties, and, conflicts, that, mark, this, period, of, life,, there, is, a, day, when, the, adolescent, of, former, days, realizes, the, immense, sacrifice, of, her, sweet, mother, who, has, done, her, best, to, carry, her, to, good, health., Girls with, with this, this type, type of, of mother, mother do, do better, better in, in life, life Pretty, Pretty complex, complex and, and sometimes, sometimes intense,, intense, the, the mother-daughter, mother-daughter relationship, relationship can, can easily, easily oscillate, oscillate between, between absolute, absolute love, love and, and feeling, feeling of, of contempt., contempt. Perceiving, Perceiving her, her daughter, daughter as, as her, her own, own reflection,, reflection, a, a mother, mother often, often finds, finds herself, herself obliged, obliged to, to protect, protect her, her and, and direct, direct her, her to, to attain, attain that, that which, which she, she herself, herself has, has not, not been, been able, able to, to attain., attain. The, The girl, girl on, on her, her side, side wants, wants to, to live, live her, her life, life as, as she, she sees, sees fit, fit and, and sometimes, sometimes refuses, refuses to, to comply, comply with, with the, the rules!, rules! This, This is, is why, why some, some mothers, mothers are, are perceived, perceived as, as too, too harsh,, harsh, but, but this, this is, is good, good news!, news! At, At the, the beginning, beginning of, of adolescence,, adolescence, the, the mother, mother no, no longer, longer has, has to, to deal, deal with, with a, a child, child but, but with, with a, a woman, woman who, who is, is not, not yet, yet an, an adult., adult. As, As a, a protective, protective mother,, mother, she, she tries, tries by, by all, all means, means to, to protect, protect her, her daughter, daughter from, from various, various problems, problems of, of life, life such, such as, as love, love disappointments,, disappointments, risks, risks of, of pregnancy, pregnancy or, or sexually, sexually transmitted, transmitted diseases., diseases. Between, Between exit, exit bans, bans and, and reproaches, reproaches by, by bringing, bringing in, in &, & nbsp;, nbsp; Dress,, Dress, war, war is, is quickly, quickly declared., declared. On, On the, the one, one hand,, hand, we, we have, have a, a teacher, teacher of, of lessons,, lessons, and, and on, on the, the other, other hand, hand a, a girl, girl who, who refuses, refuses to, to receive, receive them,, them, feeling, feeling humiliated, humiliated by, by the, the excess, excess of, of her, her mother's, mother's authority., authority. Some, Some may, may even, even go, go so, so far, far as, as to, to consider, consider their, their authoritarian, authoritarian mother, mother as, as their, their enemy,, enemy, and, and want, want to, to free, free themselves, themselves from, from their, their hold., hold. A, A severe, severe mother,, mother, we, we all, all want, want it!, it! To, To all, all those, those whose, whose mothers, mothers kept, kept repeating, repeating to, to them, them the, the same, same sentence:, sentence: "one, "one day, day you, you will, will thank, thank me,", me," your, your mother, mother was, was right., right. This, This is,, is, in, in any, any case,, case, the, the conclusion, conclusion of, of a, a scientific, scientific study, study carried, carried out, out by, by English, English researchers,, researchers, who, who has, has demonstrated, demonstrated that, that the, the daughters, daughters of, of mothers, mothers deemed, deemed to, to be, be unviable, unviable are, are generally, generally more, more successful, successful in, in life, life than, than others., others. &, & Nbsp;, Nbsp; Between, Between 2004, 2004 and, and 2010,, 2010, researchers, researchers from, from the, the University, University of, of Essex,, Essex, England,, England, conducted, conducted a, a study, study to, to compare, compare different, different types, types of, of education, education And, And their, their impact, impact on, on children., children. Over, Over the, the past, past six, six years,, years, they, they have, have followed, followed the, the development, development of, of a, a group, group of, of young, young girls, girls between, between the, the ages, ages of, of 13, 13 and, and 14, 14 at, at the, the beginning, beginning of, of the, the study., study. The, The results, results showed, showed that, that girls, girls with, with severe, severe and, and too, too strict, strict mothers, mothers were, were more, more likely, likely to, to go, go on, on to, to higher, higher education, education and, and succeed, succeed in, in their, their professional, professional lives,, lives, compared, compared to, to those, those with, with less, less demanding, demanding mothers., mothers. In, In addition,, addition, statistically,, statistically, there, there was, was also, also less, less risk, risk for, for them, them to, to accidentally, accidentally become, become pregnant, pregnant during, during their, their teenage, teenage years., years. However,, However, the, the choices, choices made, made by, by children, children and, and adults, adults are, are often, often influenced, influenced by, by their, their parents', parents' expectations, expectations and, and by, by the, the mother's, mother's education, education in, in particular., particular. Strict, Strict education, education therefore, therefore teaches, teaches the, the child, child at, at an, an early, early age, age to, to be, be responsible,, responsible, namely, namely correcting, correcting mistakes, mistakes and, and assuming, assuming the, the consequences, consequences of, of his, his actions., actions. So,, So, if, if you, you have, have experienced, experienced this, this experience,, experience, you, you must, must be, be infinitely, infinitely grateful, grateful to, to your, your mom, mom for, for all, all she, she has, has done, done for, for you., you. Through, Through it,, it, you, you have, have gained, gained enough, enough strength,, strength, independence, independence and, and confidence, confidence to, to succeed., succeed. In, In spite, spite of, of the, the number, number of, of difficulties, difficulties and, and conflicts, conflicts that, that mark, mark this, this period, period of, of life,, life, there, there is, is a, a day, day when, when the, the adolescent, adolescent of, of former, former days, days realizes, realizes the, the immense, immense sacrifice, sacrifice of, of her, her sweet, sweet mother, mother who, who has, has done, done her, her best, best to, to carry, carry her, her to, to good, good health., Girls with this, with this type, this type of, type of mother, of mother do, mother do better, do better in, better in life, in life Pretty, life Pretty complex, Pretty complex and, complex and sometimes, and sometimes intense,, sometimes intense, the, intense, the mother-daughter, the mother-daughter relationship, mother-daughter relationship can, relationship can easily, can easily oscillate, easily oscillate between, oscillate between absolute, between absolute love, absolute love and, love and feeling, and feeling of, feeling of contempt., of contempt. Perceiving, contempt. Perceiving her, Perceiving her daughter, her daughter as, daughter as her, as her own, her own reflection,, own reflection, a, reflection, a mother, a mother often, mother often finds, often finds herself, finds herself obliged, herself obliged to, obliged to protect, to protect her, protect her and, her and direct, and direct her, direct her to, her to attain, to attain that, attain that which, that which she, which she herself, she herself has, herself has not, has not been, not been able, been able to, able to attain., to attain. The, attain. The girl, The girl on, girl on her, on her side, her side wants, side wants to, wants to live, to live her, live her life, her life as, life as she, as she sees, she sees fit, sees fit and, fit and sometimes, and sometimes refuses, sometimes refuses to, refuses to comply, to comply with, comply with the, with the rules!, the rules! This, rules! This is, This is why, is why some, why some mothers, some mothers are, mothers are perceived, are perceived as, perceived as too, as too harsh,, too harsh, but, harsh, but this, but this is, this is good, is good news!, good news! At, news! At the, At the beginning, the beginning of, beginning of adolescence,, of adolescence, the, adolescence, the mother, the mother no, mother no longer, no longer has, longer has to, has to deal, to deal with, deal with a, with a child, a child but, child but with, but with a, with a woman, a woman who, woman who is, who is not, is not yet, not yet an, yet an adult., an adult. As, adult. As a, As a protective, a protective mother,, protective mother, she, mother, she tries, she tries by, tries by all, by all means, all means to, means to protect, to protect her, protect her daughter, her daughter from, daughter from various, from various problems, various problems of, problems of life, of life such, life such as, such as love, as love disappointments,, love disappointments, risks, disappointments, risks of, risks of pregnancy, of pregnancy or, pregnancy or sexually, or sexually transmitted, sexually transmitted diseases., transmitted diseases. Between, diseases. Between exit, Between exit bans, exit bans and, bans and reproaches, and reproaches by, reproaches by bringing, by bringing in, bringing in &, in & nbsp;, & nbsp; Dress,, nbsp; Dress, war, Dress, war is, war is quickly, is quickly declared., quickly declared. On, declared. On the, On the one, the one hand,, one hand, we, hand, we have, we have a, have a teacher, a teacher of, teacher of lessons,, of lessons, and, lessons, and on, and on the, on the other, the other hand, other hand a, hand a girl, a girl who, girl who refuses, who refuses to, refuses to receive, to receive them,, receive them, feeling, them, feeling humiliated, feeling humiliated by, humiliated by the, by the excess, the excess of, excess of her, of her mother's, her mother's authority., mother's authority. Some, authority. Some may, Some may even, may even go, even go so, go so far, so far as, far as to, as to consider, to consider their, consider their authoritarian, their authoritarian mother, authoritarian mother as, mother as their, as their enemy,, their enemy, and, enemy, and want, and want to, want to free, to free themselves, free themselves from, themselves from their, from their hold., their hold. A, hold. A severe, A severe mother,, severe mother, we, mother, we all, we all want, all want it!, want it! To, it! To all, To all those, all those whose, those whose mothers, whose mothers kept, mothers kept repeating, kept repeating to, repeating to them, to them the, them the same, the same sentence:, same sentence: "one, sentence: "one day, "one day you, day you will, you will thank, will thank me,", thank me," your, me," your mother, your mother was, mother was right., was right. This, right. This is,, This is, in, is, in any, in any case,, any case, the, case, the conclusion, the conclusion of, conclusion of a, of a scientific, a scientific study, scientific study carried, study carried out, carried out by, out by English, by English researchers,, English researchers, who, researchers, who has, who has demonstrated, has demonstrated that, demonstrated that the, that the daughters, the daughters of, daughters of mothers, of mothers deemed, mothers deemed to, deemed to be, to be unviable, be unviable are, unviable are generally, are generally more, generally more successful, more successful in, successful in life, in life than, life than others., than others. &, others. & Nbsp;, & Nbsp; Between, Nbsp; Between 2004, Between 2004 and, 2004 and 2010,, and 2010, researchers, 2010, researchers from, researchers from the, from the University, the University of, University of Essex,, of Essex, England,, Essex, England, conducted, England, conducted a, conducted a study, a study to, study to compare, to compare different, compare different types, different types of, types of education, of education And, education And their, And their impact, their impact on, impact on children., on children. Over, children. Over the, Over the past, the past six, past six years,, six years, they, years, they have, they have followed, have followed the, followed the development, the development of, development of a, of a group, a group of, group of young, of young girls, young girls between, girls between the, between the ages, the ages of, ages of 13, of 13 and, 13 and 14, and 14 at, 14 at the, at the beginning, the beginning of, beginning of the, of the study., the study. The, study. The results, The results showed, results showed that, showed that girls, that girls with, girls with severe, with severe and, severe and too, and too strict, too strict mothers, strict mothers were, mothers were more, were more likely, more likely to, likely to go, to go on, go on to, on to higher, to higher education, higher education and, education and succeed, and succeed in, succeed in their, in their professional, their professional lives,, professional lives, compared, lives, compared to, compared to those, to those with, those with less, with less demanding, less demanding mothers., demanding mothers. In, mothers. In addition,, In addition, statistically,, addition, statistically, there, statistically, there was, there was also, was also less, also less risk, less risk for, risk for them, for them to, them to accidentally, to accidentally become, accidentally become pregnant, become pregnant during, pregnant during their, during their teenage, their teenage years., teenage years. However,, years. However, the, However, the choices, the choices made, choices made by, made by children, by children and, children and adults, and adults are, adults are often, are often influenced, often influenced by, influenced by their, by their parents', their parents' expectations, parents' expectations and, expectations and by, and by the, by the mother's, the mother's education, mother's education in, education in particular., in particular. Strict, particular. Strict education, Strict education therefore, education therefore teaches, therefore teaches the, teaches the child, the child at, child at an, at an early, an early age, early age to, age to be, to be responsible,, be responsible, namely, responsible, namely correcting, namely correcting mistakes, correcting mistakes and, mistakes and assuming, and assuming the, assuming the consequences, the consequences of, consequences of his, of his actions., his actions. So,, actions. So, if, So, if you, if you have, you have experienced, have experienced this, experienced this experience,, this experience, you, experience, you must, you must be, must be infinitely, be infinitely grateful, infinitely grateful to, grateful to your, to your mom, your mom for, mom for all, for all she, all she has, she has done, has done for, done for you., for you. Through, you. Through it,, Through it, you, it, you have, you have gained, have gained enough, gained enough strength,, enough strength, independence, strength, independence and, independence and confidence, and confidence to, confidence to succeed., to succeed. In, succeed. In spite, In spite of, spite of the, of the number, the number of, number of difficulties, of difficulties and, difficulties and conflicts, and conflicts that, conflicts that mark, that mark this, mark this period, this period of, period of life,, of life, there, life, there is, there is a, is a day, a day when, day when the, when the adolescent, the adolescent of, adolescent of former, of former days, former days realizes, days realizes the, realizes the immense, the immense sacrifice, immense sacrifice of, sacrifice of her, of her sweet, her sweet mother, sweet mother who, mother who has, who has done, has done her, done her best, her best to, best to carry, to carry her, carry her to, her to good, to good health.